I had to share this quote from the top inspirational lady herself Oprah Winfrey.   If you must clean toilets, be the best damn cleaner there is.  If you must flip burgers, just make sure you washed your hands first since you just cleaned the restroom, and be the best cook ever.   If you…Read more »

Photo credit: TES Teach  Don’t allow the weather to dictate your plans for this life.  When the torrential downpours or the flash floods try to overtake your body, mind, and tenacity for living; consider this force of nature as a challenge.   Game on! Bring it on!  But I will prevail and keep pushing against…Read more »

Our only job in the Universe is to take action. The first step is always the hardest from a point of inaction or complacency.   Especially if we get beaten or pushed down, but in this life you ultimately only have yourself.  So get back up, coach yourself to become stronger, make better choices, and…Read more »

Sometimes you might have to give up (sacrifice) something or someone in your present life.   It might be a relationship, a friendship, a material possession, emotional luggage, or a painful addiction.  The latter may involve the need to feel validated and loved through intimate encounters and extreme risk-taking.  It might involve ‘living beyond your…Read more »

How much time do you waste each day which you will never get back.  As Cher would sing, “If I could turn back time” or Eddie Money “I wanna go back.” But we can’t so stop giving others some of your hard-earned power to control you, own you, and decide what’s best for you, as if…Read more »

Photo credit: Gustav Klimt ‘The Kiss’  A man or woman who knows their own self-worth will not waste time over trivial things.  They will not concern themselves over gossip, slander, or petty quabbles. The haters will not prevail in a kingdom where love is queen and passion is king.    That all-consuming flame of desire…Read more »

Baby fly away with me, hold me tight as I spread my wings wide, waiting without resistance but anticipation for you to come along with me.   As we soar above the snow-covered peaks and get soaked in the downpour of refreshing rain.   Stay within me.  The hidden chamber reserved only for you.  The…Read more »

Face every challenge or opportunity with open arms.  It’s  in the unexpected and unplanned where we truly find ourselves and our reason for being.  -Mark Adam Publishing 2017 “Be your own change” 

Change can either make you or break you.  It depends on your endgame and how you strategically plan your next move.   It might be as simple as a new hairstyle, a facial, manicure, pedicure, new outfit, a new tat with your new Bae, a new degree, or a new career.  Whatever it takes to…Read more »

If you are staying in a relationship solely for the need for companionship, intimacy, emotional, or financial support then it’s time to search your heart.   The struggle is indeed real and fear of being alone can be an unbearable type of pain.   It’s best to seek out meetups or a close circle of…Read more »