If you desire to change-a real transformation from the inside out; requires dedication to a purpose-driven mission.   It means sacrificing something; maybe not your physical body as our courageous military men and women but it may be financial, family, or fun.   To change your life is not some magic tarot card reading revealing…Read more »

The moment you feel compelled to substantiate your own self-worth in a relationship is a sign it’s time to move on.  If the other person cannot see your face value for what it’s truly worth they don’t deserve you in their life.   A relationship is a partnership, not a competition of the mind.  ©…Read more »

Learning to love means learning to deal with adversity.  We may not always agree on every single thing.   Life would be just to freakin’ vanilla if you asked me if there weren’t differences between each other.   Your relationship may be Chocolate mixed with Vanilla, Rocky Road, Ginger, Strawberries and Creme, or Chunky Monkey…Read more »

I have learned I may not always get it right; in either action or words.  But the main thing is to try your very best in love and in life, keeping true to yourself and others whom you hold dear.  It will be those cherished memories in the gold-framed portraits on the mantel of our…Read more »

“It is better to stand alone and feel strong than standing with people who make you weak.” Aim Gracie (2017) The power of association is the Secret to achieving not just success in your personal or business relationships but also in your inner happiness with God.   To be strong you must first be content with…Read more »

You may be in a different status or season in life than you desire however stay strong and hold your ground.   The earth is about to shake with your enthusiasm and determination to change your life and those close to you.  Surround yourself with others who want more for themselves than just the bare…Read more »

Approach your office, work, school, college, classroom like you own the place.  But not in an arrogant way, rather in a ‘Swag Style‘ all your own.  No one loves an ass unless you’ve got some, but they love individuality and flair done with class.  So “Move like Jagger” but find your own groove.  You’ve got this.…Read more »

If someone says you look radiant today, they may not be speaking metaphorically. The Beauty in the Garden may be your smile, your eyes, your personality, your fashion sense; your simple grace which brings calmness and a peaceful reassurance to ‘the noise’ around you.   This Shalom which sprouts forth from within will cause others…Read more »

Sometimes the most challenging part of life is to face your own self-doubts, insecurities, and imperfections-disregarding the opinions others may have of you and still pursue your dream.  “Remember sometimes you just have to pick yourself up and carry on…”-Jay Villamor (2017) Failure is just a way of life, but not a ‘State of Being’…Read more »

The first step towards lasting and life-transforming change is awareness of the potential in yourself and others.  The realization that limiting beliefs is all just a ‘state of mind.’ Start today with a clean slate.  The secret which can upon application mean the difference between a low-paying job or higher paying career choice.  The difference…Read more »