Sometimes it’s what we don’t say that means the most.  Past hurts, pain, mistakes, failures, missed chances, and unforgiveness can be covered up with lots of fluffy frosting and fancy decoration however that sweetness only gives a brief ‘sugar high.’  We are like that birthday cake, celebrating our good times and our good feelings but…Read more »

Be all that you can be, at the very least be there, engaged.  Ready to listen first, then to understand.  Ready to listen first, so to become aware. Ready to listen first, then to be empathetic.  Lastly we speak, then act in the best interest of the other person. We put our own self last…Read more »

Killing them with kindness is more effective at winning any war than a gun.   The Act of War can be turned around at home with a simple Random Act of Love.   A love bullet can stop hate in its tracks and penetrate the darkest parts of our body and soul with light. With…Read more »

Winning involves a sacrifice and a determination to go the distance whatever it takes.   Having a supporting partner and life coach is essential in keeping us motivated and our body and mind fully charged for the new challenge of the day.   As my an old college Professor once told us, ” Some y’all…Read more »

Sometimes it’s what we don’t say that speaks volumes.  We can be SHOUTING with our body language or with our eyes more than we can with our mouth.   The unspoken word which comes straight from our heart should SHOUT out with love and a burning passion when we give the relationship our best hand.…Read more »

“If you are unhappy or dissatisfied with your present circumstances, change your paradigm.  Then change your life.  Why be imprisoned within your own body and mind, when you can dream bigger.   Start small, visualize that cup of Starbucks today, manifest it into your hand, then move on to achieve that goal you’ve put off…Read more »

“Life is way too short within the dash.  The could haves, should haves, and have nots can all go to hell where they belong.   Why be cursed by the haunting ghosts of our past, the wandering taunting shadows lurking behind our closet and bedroom door.   Time to cast light on the dark.  Fear,…Read more »

Danger has anger within its constructure.  We must mitigate it by correcting the foundational problems in our own life.  We must manage, then realign the aspects of ourselves which tend to give way under pressure and implode on top of our relationship under extreme duress.  The unseen; verbal or non-verbal fractures may take only months…Read more »

Ugh!  Where’s my brush?  How many of us have ever had a bad hair day, you just wanted to pull out every last strand until it bled.   That’s how we deal with our own selfish desires.  What can I get out of this person.  How can I make her/him bleed to get what I…Read more »

Eliminate never from your daily vocabulary.  Replace it with endeavor as you set out to reach your goals.   When you visualize success and say Yes to every opportunity… The horizon is perfectly clear… The View is within your sight.  -Copyright by GRC Media/Mark Adam Publishing 2016