Which would you find more fulfilling on an evening relaxing at home? Cuddling in front of the TV watching a movie with the one you love, some ‘pre-game’ foreplay then on to the ‘main event’ sex, talk and conversation, sharing a meal together, and/or reading a good book and sharing your thoughts.
To keep the romance alive and interesting I believe a combo of any of the above would be in order.
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